5 days agoAdvice vs. Encouragement“People need encouragement more than they need advice.” I’ve seen this a few times around the last couple of days and it’s not a bad reminder. I’ll tell you this, the biggest regrets I have in my life (not the biggest mistakes, the biggest regrets-these are quite different) are all…Advice3 min read
Aug 4The Cost of Going HuglessI came across this earlier… “We need 4 hugs a day for survival. We need 8 hugs a day for maintenance. We need 12 hugs a day for growth.” Virginia Satir Satir was an author and therapist known for her work in family theory. This appears to be a decades…Connection6 min read
Jul 31“Everything’s Gonna Be All Right”Hiked into a nearby forest/ reservation today. It’s been a minute since I last went in. The whole area, for those who aren’t familiar, is quite massive, and also quite odd in that it’s not all one big continuous space. One part is controlled by the city, and other parts…Nature5 min read
Jul 30“Oh, Hey Intuition, Nice Timing!”My intuition often is a source of frustration for me. Admittedly of my own doing of course. Part of my design is “wait to respond” and ego (who I’m pretty sure is playing the role of me at 16–17 who would do some pretty effed up things because the ramifications…Intuition3 min read
Jul 30Scary ObsessionsI guess I posted this a couple of years back. I’m guessing that at the time it was probably aimed toward the Great Divide. Lot of good that did, clearly… Today, it feels a little different, a little more personal. Sometimes this shit we hate that scares us has nothing…Fear5 min read
Jul 18What Once WasGoing back in my travel experiences and reconnecting to places that made impacts in their own ways. One was a small town in Nebraska that I spent a quick night in. Was never actually in the plan. I actually had a space to crash for the night near Omaha, but…5 min read
Jul 14Watching in Wonder…I can’t help but look at that first image from the James Webb telescope that’s popped up all over creation the last few days. First thing that pops up, as it’s become a habit of doing is guiding me to Carl Sagan’s Pale Blue Dot. From this distant vantage point…Space5 min read
Jul 13Show, Don’t TellShow. Don’t Tell. I’m being pulled to remember this nugget I received once from a writing mentor. And of course, it’s also now connected to the Rush song, which…okay. Welcome to my head. Give me enough time and everything will eventually come back to a Rush song. It is a…Understanding5 min read
Jul 11A New Game: Building and HopeBeen pondering the word “hope” lately. Honestly, it’s been really hard to hold on to. I’m really trying, and some days it’s there and there’s fire and passion that comes when connected to it. But most days it can feel like, “what’s the point?” Mindset isn’t everything, and there is…Creativity5 min read
Jul 1Oh, Canada…Note: Potential trigger warnings for talk of suicide risk and detainment There are a handful of stories that I haven’t shared publicly about the cross country excursion I took 3 years ago. The original plan was create a book out of it, but for potential libel reasons I can’t. Not…Travel8 min read